27 dresses..

i just watched.. well.. the 27 dresses.. a very sweet and romantic show.. but wat if i'm always a bridesmaid all my life? never being the main lead? like wat i've been doing.. always on the side line.. but not in the limelight? jy said it's possible to be the bridesmaid but have many boyfriends.. haa.. i wish..

and then.. did you hear that they are prosecuting the person who sent out the intimates photos of edison? legally.. the sender is wrong..
the line between moral and legal rights and wrongs has been blurred.. videos and photos of stars and politicians doing things that should be hidden behind doors.. exposed and sent all over internet..
cries of outrage have been heard.. are these wrong? or have we idiolised these people to the stage where they shouldn't be doing such things?

i shall admit tat i'm the conservative person.. things done behind doors should be kept behind doors.. take photos and videos if you will.. but keep them well.. losing them means losing your privacy..
means losing part of you..
extreme? think of poor cuiw** the incident happened in year 1 in a local uni.. but it's common news in the local uni student circle already.. think of the poly students' video.. it was spread all the way to aussie and back! and mention it now.. and see who dunno about it..

chinese has a saying.. good news dun go far.. but bad ones travels to the end of the world at the speed of sound..

conclusion? the conservationist in me says.. do wat you will.. but stars and politicians should keep their affairs behind doors.. and unknown to the public.. i have absolutely no wish to know that the future of my country is in the hands of a frivolous person.. a cassanova.. though.. it's still amazing to know tat the third president of singapore was caught associating? with a prostitute.. well.. he was disguised by wearing a wig.. but.. still recognized..